Posted by admin | Posted in sowing seeds | Posted on 03-09-2010
Tags: Authentic Selves, Benevolent Dictator, Blank Paper, Consistent Framework, Devotion, Forefront, Honesty, Hopes And Dreams, Infancy, Mentor, Mother Of Invention, Nourishment, Path Of Life, Reflective Pool, Role Models, Sponge, Telling The Truth, Tlc, Truth Principles, Unloved

Integrity,the basing of one’s actions on an internally consistent framework of principles .Integrity,devotion to telling the truth . We as parents must be at the forefront of role models,basing our actions on these principles. As imperfect as humanity is .this is not always easy. But necessity being the mother of invention,we most certainly can do it.Parents should be the primary persons responsible for in instilling this sense of honesty and responsibility.Seeds bloom into lovely plants,but only with careful nurturing,including nourishment,TLC and attention to growth.
The nurturing starts in infancy with a loving,caring home.All people are treated with respect,caring and sincere love.A small little one is like a little sponge absorbing all that is around him or her.The reverse of these actions will promote an unloved,unhappy,uncaring child.We will have fostered this. Our children are the blank paper upon which we write. We choose the words and what is said.Authors of the story that will be a significant part of their life story.
The principles of integrity are internalized to the point that they are part of our being.A parent who has achieved this will be a living example of the best in all of us. Actions that we take in our lives will be based on this beliefs and principles.Like a reflective pool, our children will mirror these principles and actions.They are in the process of becoming but can not become what they do not experience.
Let us start with believing in our children.Their hopes and dreams can spin the web of their life.A life based on truth,principles of caring and sharing,accountability and actions consistent with their values.Learning to be their true and authentic selves. We will be their one and only parents,a role both rewarding and awesomely heavy.Their role on the path of life ,those first few steps are guided by us.We are their mentor and their friend or in other words the Benevolent Dictator.They will find their own way with our help. A way of integrity,honesty and caring.From the beginning, we must be their in every way,spiritually,physically,emo tionally and as their place of solace .We are their haven in this world.









